To me the saddest thing is that gist of the little blurb about this couple is they have a long standing Christmas tradition that they are sharing as a family. That doesn't exactly point to the deterioration of home and harth, does it? I don't understand why this matters so much to some people. If it's not hurting you then why are you trying so hard to hurt them? I know, I know, I'm preaching to the choir. But them more I try to understand the more baffled I become. It makes me want to cry.