Once more, with feeling!

http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html

Go. Read. I don't care if you're poly or monogamous or a hermit. This is a wonderful site, often updated, that I think *everyone* should read. There is good stuff there about relationships, oriented at Poly, but for anyone who is alive...seriously.

Even if you're not in the least curious about Polyamory, this has such great writing about how to be a healthy person in general. Because even if you're not in a romantic relationship, we are each in relationship with one another every day. Our interpersonal relationships with ourselves and with everyone around us can always be made better even if your only goal is to be happier yourself. You are in relationship with yourself; hate to break it to you. Doesn't it make sense that if you are happier inside yourself and treating yourself fairly and thoughtfully, that you'll be an easier person to be around?

Yeah, I thought so, too.

Go. Read. Discuss...

I'm gonna be painting the bathroom.